Friday, November 15, 2013

Rakan, Kawan, dan Sahabat

Rakan, Kawan, dan Sahabat... 

Apakah perbezaan 3 perkataan ini?
Sama je maksud 3-3 tu O_O

Ada beza...
Apsal lak? Rakan, kawan, sahabat = KAWAN lah. Dalam kamus pun macam tu gak

Daripada segi ayat memang maksudnya sama tetapi tidak pada istilah
O_O *garu kepala*

Ya, pada istilah ianya membawa maksud yang berbeza. Bagi aku, ke3-3 ini adalah berbeza, dan ada makna tersendiri. Jadi, ini kesimpulan aku mengenai maksud bagi ke3-3 perkataan ini:

:: RAKAN ::
- Bermaksud kenalan. Individu yang baru saja kita kenal dan masih tak tahu latar belakang dia lagi. 

:: KAWAN ::
- Individu yang kita dah kenal serta tahu latar belakang dia serba sedikit atau mungkin banyak atau mungkin secara terperinci. Kawan pula ada 2 jenis, satu 'kawan atas dasar nama' satu lagi 'kawan yang sememangnya kawan'. Apa beza dua ni pula? Kejap lagi aku akan perjelaskan ya.

:: SAHABAT ::
- Individu yang paling istimewa dalam hidup seseorang. Sahabat ini tidak semestinya di kalangan KAWAN BAIK/AKRAB. KAWAN RAPAT pun boleh jadi salah seorang sahabat. Sahabat is a someone who has willing to do anything to his sahabat. Anything weh, means sanggup berkorban apa saja dan sanggup buat apa saja demi sahabatnya itu walaupun perkara itu SIMPLE sekalipun. Plus, EASIEST to GET ALONG. Besides, dianggap seperti family jua. Bagi seorang Islam, sahabat inilah yang akan sering memperingatkan dan mengajak kita ke arah akidah dan syariah. Dialah yang akan menyedarkan kita mengenai tujuan hidup yang sebenar, yakni kembali kepada yang Esa, Allah, jika kita terlalu alpa dengan duniawi. Selain menegur dan menasihati dalam hal agama, sahabat juga menegur dan menasihati dalam perihal lain seperti tingkah-laku, appearance, kehidupan, dan sebagainya. Hal yang demikian, sahabat ini sememangnya kawan yang PALING SPECIAL. Kenapa ianya dikategorikan dalam SAHABAT? Ini kerana berpandukan pada PARA SAHABAT Nabi Muhammad S.A.W. Kawan2 Rasul kita yang special, Baginda memanggil mereka SAHABAT (^_^) Jadi, hanya orang2 tertentu dan terpenting saja yang layak untuk dikategorikan sahabat ini. Dan kebiasaannya sahabat ini hubungan persahabatannya berlaku TANPA mana2 pihak perasannya dan terjalin secara NATURAL. Apa yang paling penting, persahabatan terjalin dengan keikhlasan dan kejujuran berlandaskan niat kerana Allah.

Demikianlah perbezaan makna sebenar bagi ke3-3 perkataan tersebut. Sekarang sudah terbuka minda dan sedar yang ke3-3 ini sangat berbeza maknanya? Well, this is JUST my OPINION. Sebenarnya ia terletak pada seseorang tu juga bagaimana dia nak nilaikan sendiri. 

Ok, kembali pada kawan tadi, aku ada nyatakan yang kawan ada 2 cabangnya kan di mana 'kawan atas dasar nama' dan 'kawan yang sememangnya kawan'. Seterusnya, adalah penjalasan bagi kawan pula:

:: KAWAN ATAS DASAR NAMA ::
- Sama saja dengan makna kawan tadi, individu yang kita dah kenal serta tahu latar belakang dia serba sedikit atau mungkin banyak atau mungkin secara terperinci. Cuma bezanya adalah, seseorang itu berkawan atas ingin nak ada rakan saja. He has NO WILLING to do anything to his friends. Nak lakukan apa saja atau berkorban apa saja demi kawan agak payah sikitlah. Sebab apa? Sebab keikhlasannya tidak 100%. Inilah namanya masa senang dia berkawan tetapi masa susah dia HILANG. It's like, "ok kau kawan aku, aku kawan kau, kita berkawan! Yay! Aku ada kawan! Takdelah FOREVER ALONE!" ok dah tu saja, ASAL ADA KAWAN.

:: KAWAN SEMEMANGNYA KAWAN ::
- - Individu yang kita dah kenal serta tahu latar belakang dia serba sedikit atau mungkin banyak atau mungkin secara terperinci. Individu2 bagi kategori ini adalah mereka daripada kalangan KAWAN RAPAT dan KAWAN BAIK/AKRAB. Individu ini pun he has willing to do anything to his buddies. Easy to get along. Usual gang for hang out. Dia lebih kurang macam sahabat juga cuma bezanya dia takdelah special sangat dan takde sampai anggap macam family.

Bagi aku pula, aku ada peringkat kategori2 ini dan panggilan khusus dengan tersendiri:
  1. SAHABAT = NAKAMA
  2. BFF/KAWAN BAIK/AKRAB = BUDDY = MEMBER
  3. CLOSEST FRIEND/KAWAN PALING RAPAT = BUDDY = TOMODACHI = MEMBER
  4. CLOSER FRIEND/KAWAN RAPAT = MEMBER
  5. FRIEND/KAWAN
  6. RAKAN
Dan biasanya yang no.1 hingga 4 diorang panggil aku dengan nama lain atau pronoun sama tapi ejaan nama lain. Lagi satu, aku pula jarang sekali nak panggil nama nakama dan buddies aku melainkan bila keadaan terdesak dan terpaksa saja.


Di bawah ni aku lampirkan 2 buah LAGU KHAS beserta lirik sekali khusus untuk SAHABAT, BFF, BUDDY, dan MEMBER. I also dedicate THIS song to my nakama, bff, buddies, and members (^-^)



"FRIENDS" - Raven Symone and Anneliese Van der Pol

[Raven:]
Oh yeah 
welcome to the life of Raven and Anneliese
You know i got your back from now forever i'm your girl (it's so true)
And you can count on me on that you can be sure
We'll always be friend it's true (you know)
I was always there for you (always)
I would never turn my back on us it's true

[Both:]
Tight for life (for life)
we're friends that's right (for life)
I'm here for you whenever you need (we'll be)

[Chorus:]
Come on!
Cuz you got your friends you can count on always there for you
Yeah you got your friends to rely on to get you through
No matter what a friend you can call on your girl it's true
Cuz you got your friends, friends, friends like i got you
(Anneliese!)

[Anneliese:]
We've got our problems but we find a way to work it out
Never let anyone between us nothing's gonna bring us down
Everyting i'm gonna do (what?)
I will always call on you (i know)
Whatever happens I know that you'll pull through
You can trust in me (trust me)
no doubt no need (there's no need)
to worry bout a thing at all (it's so true)
It's true oh oh

[Both:]
Cuz you got your friends you can count on always there for you (i'm always there for you girl)
Yeah you got your friends to rely on to get you through
No matter what a friend you can call on your girl it's true
Cuz you got your friends, friends, friends like i got you

[Raven:]
And if there's anything you want (anything, I got you)
Anything you need (all you gotta do is ask)

[Both:]
Both of us together 
yeah we're unstopable
Just you wait and see

[Anneliese:]
What's good Rae? You know your my girl right?

[Raven:]
Forsho Anneliese anything you need ma

[Anneliese:]
Whoa Alright alright ok 
I guess we're friend for life then

[Both:]
Cuz you got your friends you can count on always there for you (welcome to the life of Raven and Anneliese)
Yeah you got your friends to rely on to get you through
No matter what a friend you can call on your girl it's true
Cuz you got your friends, friends, friends like i got you

Cuz you got your friends you can count on always there for you
Yeah you got your friends to rely on to get you through
No matter what a friend you can call on your girl it's true
Cuz you got your friends, friends, friends like i got you

(BBF man, best friends forever)
Cuz you got your friends you can count on always there for you
(BBF, best friends... no, BFF, best friends forever)
Yeah you got your friends to rely on to get you through
No matter what a friend you can call on your girl it's true
Cuz you got your friends, friends, friends like i got you



"Best Friends" - Raven Symone"

Your my friend...(our friendship will never end,,,)
A friend so true and near to my heart, I'd wish that we would never had to part, but in my heart
we'll always remain the best of friends
Remembering the day you went away my heart was filled with so much pain
How I wish you could stay and erase all this pain in my heart, we'll always remain the best of friends

[CHORUS]
You know that I am your friend, so let me say it again
It's where it starts, it never ends, never ends
Don't you know that i'm your friend...
You know that I am your friend, no doubt about it
Our friendship wil never end 'cause your my best friend

All of the fun things we did together, I knew that we'd be friends forever (ever)
But then you had to leave, tell me how could this be my friends leavin me?

They say a true friendship never ends (never ends)
I know it's true 'cause I can't breathe in all of the memories of you and me annd how we will
always be the best of friends

You'll always be the special side of me, 'cause your my friend
No matter where you go, I wanna let you know your my friend, you are my friend

[REPEAT CHORUS]

No matter where you go, I just gotta let you know that you will always be my friend, my best
friend (your friend)
Doesn't matter 'cause you live too far (your friend)
My friend, I am where you are

Our friendship will never end...


Berikut adalah gambar2 NAKAMA & BUDDY:











SAHABAT & BFF MOMENTS:



Inilah yang dikatakan SAHABAT, beliau sanggup mengorbankan nyawa bagi sahabatnya hidup:
"Tomodachi darou? (We're friends, right?)" - Zack Fair

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